Your Bag of Randomness for Tuesday, September 3, 2024

  • I somewhat sneakily allowed comments on Friday. Thanks to those of you who took the time to wish me a happy birthday. It’s one party vanity on my part and one part helping to figure out if anyone still includes this blog in their morning routine.
  • For the most part, it was one of the best birthdays I’ve had in a long while. A lot of that was because a childhood friend drove all the way from Mineral Wells just to take me out for a birthday lunch on Friday. He used to frustrate me so much, he lacked so much compassion in high school and college, especially for someone going into the ministry. But the man’s heart has softened over the past few years and he has been there for me in ways I never thought possible. Usually, we are surrounded by our other close friends, so it was nice to have this one-on-one time. If anything, it was fun to tell him about the previous weekend, which was one of my worst in a while. I forgot what it feels like when someone actually cares about what you tell them is going on in their life.
  • My birthday kind of ended on a high note. A girl I’ve been getting to know, someone I felt I had great chemistry with, decided to make a Blizzard run and meet at Dairy Queen. This is a bit funny because one of you commented on how I should get a Blizzard to cap off the birthday. The only thing was, despite meeting inside, we never ordered our Blizzards because we got lost in conversation, and the next thing we knew, it was closing time. We connected on so many big and small issues, from politics to pop culture. She asked for my number several times. I was smitten. But it was all for nothing. She ghosted me. I feel like an idiot for so many reasons. What I wish she would do is remove me as a contact on the dating app we connected on. Her keeping that connection keeps a tiny bit of hope alive, and I want to extinguish it if there’s no chance at anything.
  • I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned that I’ve been attending a new church. For the last several weeks, I wondered when I’d feel accepted as part of the class and not just the new dude visiting. On Sunday, we discussed various hot-topic issues that have divided many denominations. The pastor asked me to close us in prayer at the end of class. I’m sure it was overlooked by most, but to me, it was a significant moment and brought a lot of warm fuzzies inside my heart. It was a nice moment of feeling accepted and that I belonged. Truth be told, I haven’t prayed publically or in front of others in a while, so I was a little nervous. But someone was even kind enough to tell me they liked my prayer and hope I’ll pray more often. I’m just doing what I can to recognize the small wins in life because I too often overlook them.
  • On Labor Day, I had every intention of cleaning and doing a bunch of small chores. But then AMC started a Band of Brothers marathon. Right when I was going to get up, a dog laid down on my lap, and I was done. At least BoyGeeding helped me put together a desk that Amazon recently delivered. I made him take the lead, and only helped him when he was stuck. I could have put it all together in half an hour, but bonding with him for about two hours was well worth the extra time.
  • Does anyone remember watching the Rikki-Tikki-Tavi cartoon during grade school film strip time? Here’s a real-life version.
  • I really respect the college football teams that don’t play cupcake opponents in the first week of the season. Now that the college playoffs have expanded, you’re going to see more quality games now that schools no longer need to go undefeated and quality or strength of schedule will be a larger component.
  • The USC Trojans have a pretty cool intro-hype video for their football team, but I don’t think they fully understand the story of the Trojan horse.
  • The Longhorns now stick a football on a sword after an interception, a bit that I first noticed done by Arizona last season. But, this Longhorn running back impressed me with his work ethic.

  • I didn’t verify the stat, but I read the Aggies are 1-9 (0.100) all-time when appearing on College GameDay. And this video of the College Gameday guys being brutally honest off-camera will bruise their egos. I’ve been to Kyle Field and personally never understood why they felt their game day experience was any more special than one you’d experience at The Ohio State University, Michigan, or South Bend.

  • Just a lineman living the dream.

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Your Bag of Nothing for Friday, August 30, 2024

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Your Bag of Nothing for Thursday, August 29, 2024

  • I research the most random things. Yesterday, I did a deep dive into the history of the Shah of Iran and his country. The older I get, the more I want to understand why humans can’t get along. The night before, it was a deep dive into all the contemporary Christian music of the Nineties. Before I discovered U2, I wore this CD out.
  • If you know the history of the X-Men, then you know there’s a loose tie. Last night, I started watching the cartoon series on Disney+, mainly to better understand why so many fans enjoyed Channing Tatum’s appearance as Gambit in Deadpool and Wolverine. Speaking of which: Deadpool & Wolverine deleted scene teases Gambit return
  • Doing your laundry in the back of your Tesla Cybertruck is an interesting way to advertise your business in Dallas. I’ve now seen everything.

     

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  • It was sad to hear of Roger Cook’s passing, the gardener and landscaper from This Old House. Oh man, I used to watch that show religiously. I loved doing DIY stuff, and I miss it so much. But now, I find it too painful to watch any DIY show since I no longer have a house or means to do DIY stuff. It scratched that artistic and creative itch I often have, and I love the tangible sense of accomplishment it brings.
  • Who knows if I’ll ever go through with it, but I spent at least 20 minutes researching how I can volunteer for the Make-A-Wish foundation. If you live in North Texas and are interested in volunteering, you can find all you want to know about it here.
  • Unlike the rest of the world, I’m not a Beetlejuice fan.
  • I mentioned a bad date the other day. Kudos to the girl for texting me right afterward and apologizing for her bad attitude. At one point, I came close to just walking out. We ate at a new local Mexican restaurant. Just look at the prices of these drinks. Since I was paying, I drank water. The prices remind me of a line from one of the Beverly Hill Cop movies about what Axel Foley says he can buy for five bucks after paying that for a Coke.
  • I don’t know if I’ve said this before, but I’m sure it’s something I will repeat often. It doesn’t matter how correct I am or how constructive the thought or criticism is, but I’ll always be portrayed as the bitter ex-husband. Other than my counselor and maybe one other friend from college, no one is willing to look past that. I don’t think I’ll experience joy again until my son graduates in 2030 and I move from my current neighborhood.
  • One of the first sermons I heard at my new church mentioned Mother Theresa. Her secret letters show that she spent almost 50 years without sensing God’s presence in her life. I can totally relate.
  • I signed up for confirmation class at my new church. It’s funny, every time I mention that to an evangelical friend, they ask, “What is that?” A season of my life has been spent in the Lutheran, Baptist, Bible, and Presbyterian churches. I really enjoy immersing myself in different streams of the Christian faith and getting cultured on how people choose to view and worship God differently. We all like to put God in a box. That’s funny in itself, as we are the ones who place ourselves in boxes and not realizing it.
  • I wonder if I’ll ever be physically intimate with someone again. It took 26 years for me to work up the courage to kiss a girl. Unlike a lot of folks, I have a huge emotional connection with physical intimacy, so there’s no way I could ever have a one-night stand or a friend with benefits. Oh, that reminds me of something I told the girl I’m getting to know. She told me as a cancer survivor, one of the benefits she gets is access to an exclusive gym. My reply to her was that now I have a friend with benefits.
  • America’s most popular sport, but sometimes, I wonder, at what cost?
  • I didn’t realize one of the lead band members of Blink 182 was a huge U2 fan. So much so that he ended a concert by saying U2 was the best band ever and playing Where the Streets Have No Name.
  • Unless you follow politics or presidential history, you won’t appreciate the humor behind this tweet. I thought it was fake until I verified it myself. If you want a deep dive into the fashion analysis of the two, check out Derek Guy’s Twitter thread. He’s a great follow if you know nothing about men’s fashion and want to be introduced to it little by little. I was surprised to find out he’s Vietnamese. One thing I learned from his tweets is how to be temperamental because he gets some awful comments from time to time and replies with dignity and grace.
  • Aging gracefully and beautifully. Sigourney Weaver is 74 years old, and here I  would have guessed she was in her sixties. I’m at that age where it’s hard to believe how old the adult stars of my youth are.
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Your Bag of Nothing for Wednesday, August 28, 2024

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